Tech
How Algorithms Are Training Us to Forget Ourselves
Algorithms are not passive assistants humming in the background; they actively shape how we think, what we see, and how we judge ourselves. The promise of personalization feeds, curated recommendations, and endless “for you” pages rests on the premise that machines can anticipate us better than we can. The costs of that promise are cognitive, psychological, and spiritual.
Recommendation systems draw on vast pools of behavioral data, including clicks, pauses, likes, and purchases. Each micro-action becomes a feature in a predictive model that not only observes but also quietly steers behavior. Reinforcement-learning research has long shown how behavior can be cultivated through structured schedules of reward. Online, those schedules look like gambling payoffs: sometimes a like, sometimes silence, sometimes a sudden surge of responses.
Neuroscience is blunt: dopamine release reinforces the urge to return. What distinguishes digital platforms is the velocity and scale at which reinforcement operates. Billions of micro-interactions occur every day, enabling algorithms to refine predictions more quickly than human intuition. As attention is continually fragmented, productivity can fall sometimes by as much as 40 percent.
The consequences reach beyond attention span. When the mind becomes accustomed to staccato bursts of novelty, sustained reflection becomes more challenging. Educators increasingly report that students struggle not just with comprehending longer texts but with tolerating the discomfort of slow reading. Cognitive endurance, the capacity to remain with an idea, erodes gradually, often invisibly, until its effects on learning and patience become impossible to ignore.
Psychologically, curated content intensifies social comparison. Adolescents and young adults are especially vulnerable when faced with idealized portrayals of peers. Social media exposure is linked to greater body dissatisfaction and heightened anxiety through these comparisons. In clinical settings, people often equate self-worth with the metrics of digital approval, which is a fragile substitute for genuine belonging. Technology that promises connection can, perversely, amplify loneliness.
The usual prescriptions, such as removing or deleting the app, silencing notifications, or fasting for a weekend, offer relief but rarely lead to transformation. These “digital detoxes” treat symptoms, not causes. The deeper problem is the outsourcing of reflection and choice to machines. When algorithms decide what deserves attention, we forfeit a central human capacity: deliberate contemplation.
From an Islamic perspective, this erosion of reflection is particularly troubling. The Qur’an repeatedly calls for tafakkur, contemplation of creation and the self as a path toward God-consciousness (Qur’an 3:191). Far from esoteric, tafakkur is a practical discipline: pausing before reaction, noticing patterns in life, questioning assumptions. It stands in direct tension with the restless scroll of algorithmic life, reminding us that attention itself is an amana—a trust to be safeguarded.
Equally central is the principle of embodied community. Congregational prayer is not only worship but a rehearsal of equality, presence, and solidarity. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) described believers as being like bricks that support one another (Sahih Muslim). In contrast to the isolating logic of comparison-based feeds, Islamic communal practices emphasize mutual reinforcement and support. They insist that human worth is not a tally of likes but a solidarity enacted in physical space.
The task, then, is not merely to regulate screen time but to reimagine technology’s place in human life. Can platforms be built to encourage depth, slowness, and humility? Can communities reclaim rituals of presence that resist algorithmic distraction? Those questions demand more than engineering fixes; they call for philosophical, psychological, and spiritual engagement.
The cost of algorithmic perfection is not only a distraction but a narrowing of what it means to be human. To resist, we need practices both personal and communal that anchor us outside the machine’s logic. Technology will always tempt with convenience. However, convenience should not dictate our thoughts, relationships, or sense of self.